{"id":14944,"date":"2025-04-08T23:49:38","date_gmt":"2025-04-08T23:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new50.info\/?p=14944"},"modified":"2025-04-08T23:49:38","modified_gmt":"2025-04-08T23:49:38","slug":"its-the-kind-of-song-that-sticks-to-your-soul-raw-haunting-and-full-of-heartbreak-when-vince-gill-set-out-to-write-about-a-friend-who-crossed-an-unthinkable-line-the-words-didn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new50.info\/?p=14944","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s the kind of song that sticks to your soul \u2014 raw, haunting, and full of heartbreak. When Vince Gill set out to write about a friend who crossed an unthinkable line, the words didn\u2019t come easy. 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He also took Owsley\u2019s 13-year-old son as his guest to the Grammy Awards when the song was nominated for Country Song of the Year in 2011.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Billy Paul\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/scPyBlnPIbI\" width=\"350\" height=\"235\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-origwidth=\"350\" data-origheight=\"235\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"h-billy-paul\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201cBilly Paul\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>The album also touches on suicide again on the track \u201cBill Paul,\u201d the story of Gill\u2019s friend, guitarist, who committed murder a year earlier and then took his life.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a true story that happened a year or so ago,\u201d said Gill. \u201cBilly Paul was a friend of mine that caddied out at the golf club where I play golf. We had been friends for 20 years. Unfortunately, he took a woman\u2019s life and then took his own. I was crazy about him. I wanted to understand how it happened. He meant enough to me to write a song about him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>Now I\u2019ve seen you at your best and now your worst<br \/>\nThe best of you is what I\u2019ll remember first<br \/>\nWe\u2019ll read your momma\u2019s favorite Bible verse<br \/>\nAnd then watch you ride away in that old hearse<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Well I know you\u2019re ashamed for what you done<br \/>\nThe only choice you thought you had was just to run<br \/>\nPride always gets the best of everyone<br \/>\nTrue forgiveness lies with the Father and the Son<\/p>\n<p>What made you go crazy, Billy Paul<br \/>\nDid you think you couldn\u2019t face those prison walls?<br \/>\nWhy\u2019d you have to go and end it all?<br \/>\nWhat made you go crazy, Billy Paul?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a story song that talks about redemption and has a spiritual side to it,\u201d adds Gill, \u201ceven as dark as it is.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9004111231463962\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9004111231463962\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazyloaded wp-image-9004111231463962\" src=\"https:\/\/americansongwriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Vince-Gill-7.jpg?w=662\" alt=\"Vince Gill, Keith Urban Among First Batch of 2024 ACM Honors Performers Announced\" width=\"662\" height=\"264\" data-expand=\"600\" data-src=\"https:\/\/americansongwriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Vince-Gill-7.jpg?w=662\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9004111231463962\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Vince Gill performs during the 7th Annual ACM Honors on Sept. 10, 2013, in Nashville, Tennessee. (Photo by Jim Smeal\/BEI\/Shutterstock)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n<p>The song also features Gill\u2019s then 9-year-old daughter Corrina on vocals. Now 23, Corinna released her debut album,\u00a0<em>House On Another Street<\/em>,\u00a0in February 2025.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI really try to hear the voices,\u201d said Gill of the album. \u201cSo even though it\u2019s a 9-year-old kid [on \u2018Billy Paul\u2019], I knew what I wanted that to sound like. Corrina was really compelled by that song. It\u2019s a very dark song about murder and suicide. I went to Amy and said, \u2018This is either the worst idea I ever had, or it might be really eerie and cool.\u2019 She said, \u2018Let\u2019s try it.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Gill continued, \u201cJust hearing a little girl\u2019s voice singing those words, \u2018What made you go crazy, Billy Paul?\u2019 is pretty haunting. It was the right voice. Not the fact that it was my kid.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"h-tapping-into-merle\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tapping Into Merle<\/h3>\n<p>In a 2014 interview with SongFacts, Gill revealed that he drew on one of his biggest influences, Merle Haggard, when writing \u201cBilly Paul.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere was one record I made a couple of years ago where I really got emotional because it was the first time I\u2019ve made a record that I felt like I really seeped into Merle Haggard,\u201d\u00a0said Gill. \u201cIt was a song called \u2018Billy Paul.\u2019 The sound of the record, everything about it was Merle. It was a true story about a friend of mine that unfortunately killed a woman and then took his own life. So it\u2019s a dark subject. 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