{"id":16746,"date":"2025-05-14T23:12:24","date_gmt":"2025-05-14T23:12:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new50.info\/?p=16746"},"modified":"2025-05-14T23:12:24","modified_gmt":"2025-05-14T23:12:24","slug":"dolly-parton-once-confronted-the-real-life-jolene-for-flirting-with-her-late-husband-carl-dean-she-jerked-my-wig-off-but-i-kept-my-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new50.info\/?p=16746","title":{"rendered":"Dolly Parton Once Confronted the Real-Life \u201cJolene\u201d for Flirting With Her Late Husband, Carl Dean: \u201cShe Jerked My Wig Off\u2026 But I Kept My Husband\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A once in a lifetime love.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-1\"><ins id=\"982a9496-8fb3ffb49235aca0422c35e464a1b385-3-7724\" class=\"982a9496\" data-key=\"8fb3ffb49235aca0422c35e464a1b385\"><ins id=\"982a9496-8fb3ffb49235aca0422c35e464a1b385-3-7724-1\"><\/p>\n<div id=\"x_dv_9e4f0e34-239c-41e0-b7f8-95c837a950dd\"><\/div>\n<p><\/ins><\/ins><\/div>\n<p>Today,\u00a0<strong>Dolly Parton\u00a0<\/strong>sadly announced that her husband of nearly 59 years passed away in Nashville at the age of 82. The pair first\u00a0<strong>met at the Wishy Washy laundromat<\/strong>\u00a0in Nashville during one of her first weekends in town after moving there to pursue a music career. He saw her walking down the street, pulled over to ask her out, and the rest, as they say, is history.<\/p>\n<p>The sad news about Carl\u2019s passing was released via Dolly\u2019s social media with the following statement:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cCarl Dean, husband of Dolly Parton, passed away March 3rd in Nashville at the age of 82. He will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family attending. He was survived by his siblings Sandra and Donnie.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u2018Carl and I spent many wonderful years together. Words can\u2019t do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.\u2019<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The family has asked for privacy during this difficult time.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><iframe id=\"instagram-embed-0\" class=\"instagram-media instagram-media-rendered\" src=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DGwdXPoPvoj\/embed\/captioned\/?cr=1&amp;v=14&amp;wp=540&amp;rd=https%3A%2F%2Flitaglobal.com&amp;rp=%2Fmaiplinh%2Fdolly-parton-once-confronted-the-real-life-jolene-for-flirting-with-her-late-husband-carl-dean-she-jerked-my-wig-off-but-i-kept-my-husband%2F%3Ffbclid%3DIwY2xjawKSAkZleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFUUko0S#%7B%22ci%22%3A0%2C%22os%22%3A2289%2C%22ls%22%3A1673.5%2C%22le%22%3A2285.399999976158%7D\" height=\"881\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-instgrm-payload-id=\"instagram-media-payload-0\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>While their love life was very private, it is pretty much common knowledge at this point that\u00a0<strong>Dolly Parton\u00a0<\/strong>wrote her iconic song\u00a0<strong>\u201cJolene\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0about a real life girl. Released in 1973, it was one of her first big hit singles, and served as the title track for her 13th studio album. She famously wrote it on the same day in 1972 that she wrote her other massive hit, \u201cI Will Always Love You.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dolly has talked about how the song is based on a true story many times, and in an interview with\u00a0<em>Access<\/em> to talk about her new baking line several years ago, she gave a little more backstory to what really went down with \u201cJolene.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She says she started to notice that Carl was going to the bank way more often than he needed to back then:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cWell, actually, it was based on a little truth. Her name was not Jolene, but she was working at the bank, and she was this beautiful girl. And that was bad enough, that he was having to go to the bank as much as he was going.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>And I kept thinking, we ain\u2019t got that kinda money, not yet anyway. He was in asphalt paving, he and his father, and I said, \u2018Why are you having to talk to her all the time?\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Carl assured her there was nothing more to it, and Dolly wanted to know why there wasn\u2019t someone else he could talk to at the bank if that was the case:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cAnd he said, \u2018I\u2019m trying to get a loan, I\u2019m trying to do this for our asphalt paving company.\u2019\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>And I said, \u2018Well, couldn\u2019t you talk to one of those hairy legged boys about a thing like that?\u2019 And he said, \u2018No\u2019.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dolly was gonna set him straight regardless of why he was really there, and told him he better act right or else\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cAnd I said, \u2018Look, you better be talkin\u2019 to one of those boys, or it\u2019s gonna be your ** and your fault! So there\u2019s your asphalt.\u2019\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Spoken like a true queen\u2026 I have a feeling he never went out of his way to talk to \u201cJolene\u201d again.<\/p>\n<p>Decades later though, Dolly looks back on the situation and realizes that it was more about her own insecurities than anything else. But hey, at least we got one of the best country songs of all time out of it, right?<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cBut I was just jealous, \u2018cuz she was prettier than me and I think I just felt threatened. He didn\u2019t have a thing going with her, but he was flirtin\u2019.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>But I\u2019m a flirt, too. Anyways, I thought, this makes a great idea for a song. So I wrote it.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In a performance she did on her\u00a0<em>Dolly<\/em>\u00a0variety show years ago, she admitted that she actually \u201cfought Jolene like a wildcat\u201d and Jolene ripped her wig off and almost beat her \u201cto death with it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Now I don\u2019t know if she means that so literally, but I guess she got the last laugh, because when she got home, she says she beat the tar out of Carl Dean too when they got home:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cNow this is a true story for those of you that don\u2019t know. I wrote this song about 20 years ago about this woman down in Nashville, that worked at the bank. She was trying to take care of my husband while I was out on the road.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Well that didn\u2019t go over too big with me, I fought that red-headed woman like a wildcat. She jerked my wig off and almost beat me to death with it. But I kept my husband, I got that sucker home and I beat the tar out of him.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Can\u2019t say that wasn\u2019t deserved\u2026 and honestly, what the heck could\u00a0<strong>Jolene have possibly looked like<\/strong>? I just don\u2019t see how she was any competition whatsoever\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I guess at the very least, we have her to thank for this incredible song, so there\u2019s that. I bet she was scared straight to see Dolly coming too, which I love to think about. For over 50 years now, it\u2019s remained one of country music\u2019s most beloved and popular songs, and I don\u2019t think that will ever change.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sure like just like any normal couple, they had their own little issues after so many decades of being married, but they also got some great stories out of it, too. Carl is every bit an icon for not only pulling Dolly to begin with, but keeping her happy and loved for almost sixty years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rest in peace, Carl Dean.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can watch the interview below.<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-wrap\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Dolly Parton Reveals What Makes Marriage w\/ Carl Dean Work\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/3Sg-2NxCxcw?start=763&amp;feature=oembed\" width=\"350\" height=\"235\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" data-origwidth=\"350\" data-origheight=\"235\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>I mean, it\u2019s just an all-time classic\u2026<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-wrap\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Dolly Parton - Jolene 19880110\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/L0eeSoU35wM?feature=oembed\" width=\"350\" height=\"235\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\" data-mce-fragment=\"1\" data-origwidth=\"350\" data-origheight=\"235\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A once in a lifetime love. 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