My son, Oliver, is the light of my life. He has a rare condition that prevents him from speaking, but it doesn’t define him. Like any child, he is full of curiosity and love, but he experiences the world through silence. His condition has shaped how we communicate as a family, teaching me that communication isn’t just about words.
At first, the silence felt overwhelming, and I worried about how he would express himself. But Oliver showed me that he communicates through art, gestures, and small notes. His drawings—like a simple sun with stick figures—speak volumes about his need for connection, and his handwritten “I love you” reminds me that love doesn’t need words to be felt.
One day, Oliver came home with a drawing filled with dark, chaotic shapes. I could tell something was wrong, and after asking him with sign language, he showed me he was upset. It was a silent cry for help, reminding me that even without words, Oliver’s message was clear.
Through Oliver, I’ve learned that silence holds meaning. His expressions and actions speak louder than words ever could. His silence isn’t emptiness; it’s a language of love, pain, and joy. His presence has taught me to listen with my heart, to understand what’s not said, and to appreciate the deeper connection we share.