childbirth experience. Despite using he/him and they/them pronouns, hospital staff continued to refer to him as a mother, ignoring his gender identity.
Kaspar-Williams, who began transitioning in 2014 after realizing he was transgender in 2011, had top surgery but chose not to undergo lower body procedures. His pregnancy journey was both rewarding and difficult, with the persistent misgendering from medical staff being a major source of distress.
He expressed frustration at the assumption that motherhood is inherently tied to womanhood. Kaspar-Williams emphasized the importance of separating gender identity from biological functions, noting that not all women can become mothers, and not all people who give birth are mothers.
His experience highlights the need for better awareness and respect for gender diversity in healthcare settings. By honoring people’s chosen names and pronouns, we can foster a more inclusive and respectful environment for all.
