I missed my daughter Ava’s wedding due to complications from surgery overseas, despite begging my doctor to let me fly for the day. Instead, I quietly cried while flipping through photos of her radiant day with her husband, Jacob. To make up for my absence, I decided to give them a meaningful gift: I bought them a house and a modest SUV, both paid in full.
Months later, feeling stronger, I surprised Ava with an unannounced visit, only to find her scrubbing the floor while her in-laws lounged on the couch, demanding more from her without helping. It was clear she was shouldering all the household responsibilities, and I felt a surge of protectiveness for my tired daughter.
That evening, I confronted her in-laws, asserting that Ava was not their servant and that they needed to contribute if they wanted to stay in the house. I revealed that I had purchased the home and the car, making it clear they had no right to treat her like a maid. This confrontation led to their quick departure, allowing Ava and me to reclaim her home and her sense of self.
In the days that followed, we cleaned and rediscovered joy in her space. I tossed her the car keys and suggested a drive, and for the first time in a long while, Ava smiled. That night, as she rested her head on my shoulder, she whispered that she had forgotten what it felt like to be herself. I reassured her that she was my daughter, not a servant, and that no one should ever forget that.