The letter “M” on a traditional RSVP card has confused countless wedding guests, especially those who have never encountered older invitation etiquette. At first glance, the single letter can look strangely unfinished, leaving people wondering whether it refers to a meal choice, the number of guests attending, or some special instruction from the couple. The explanation is actually much simpler. The “M” is the beginning of a courtesy title, and the guest is expected to complete it before writing their name. Depending on personal preference, someone might turn it into “Mr.,” “Mrs.,” “Ms.,” or “Miss,” followed by their full name. For example, the finished line might read “Mr. John Smith” or “Ms. Jane Smith.” It is therefore not a question at all, but a small piece of traditional etiquette that has survived from an era when formal titles were routinely used in written correspondence… Continue Reading 🔽
